In keeping with my last post I want to write about the reality of the money situation as well. Here’s a little nugget of honesty, when it’s three days before payday and the checking account has $2.06 in it and the dogs run out of dog food, I feed them cat food. I give the kids a mixture a half-juice and half-water and tell them it’s healthier that way. At dinner when we sit down to eat and the napkins/paper towels are used up – we use baby bibs as our “wiping rags”. We’re so green.
That’s what happens when you stop using credit cards to bridge the paycheck gap. None of it is hurting anyone but it sucks. We live in a snotty high income area and I often wonder how all these other people are making it. Are they surviving on credit or have they just managed their money so much better than we have? I told you before our net worth is $112,000 and that is true. (We have 401k savings, we have 529 college funds for the kids and we put $100,000 down on our house (got really lucky and sold our old house at the height of the housing boom) but we can only put $8 of gas in the car!?!)
How come I’m eating Oodles of Noodles like I’m living in a dorm the day before payday?
Crappy choices. Spending more a month than we take in month and using credit cards for the difference. Cutting up the credit cards was tough, they were such a crutch but it was necessary if we are going to ever get out the paycheck to paycheck cycle. So yeah, sometimes the dogs will have to eat cat food.













January 23, 2010 at 11:30 am
Congrats on cutting up the cc’s! That’s a huge milestone. One I haven’t done yet. LOL I like to hang on them “just in case…” However the “just in case” situations have been to bridge paychecks. So I know exactly what you mean! Yes it sucks…but remember why you’re doing it. Eating oodles & noodles is not the end of the world. As long as the dogs don’t start to meow…then you’re good! LOL I have made a pledge not to use the cc unless of an emergency. If we can’t afford it right now…we don’t need it. I can say from personal experience, the first few paychecks are the hardest. Then you start to seriously look at your budget & stick to it. LOL If that means eating pasta 13 out of 15 days of the paycheck cycle…then you do it. It will get better, but the first step is changing your mind set from “Oh I’ll just charge it for now” to “We can live without it”
January 23, 2010 at 11:58 am
No lie, we had pasta 4 days this week. If the dogs do start to meow maybe we could make some money off them in a circus freak sideshow hustle? That was witty as hell Cris.
January 23, 2010 at 12:04 pm
I like that idea! $$$ making opportunity right there with the dogs. LOL
We had chili 3 nights this week. Saved on home heating too after everyone ate chili.
ROFLMAO!!!
January 24, 2010 at 6:08 pm
They say it’s the only way to go in order to be out of debt..thus I wish you well sounds like your one your way.
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